CHANGING TIMES!!!!

Hii there!!!

was wondering...... is a "CHANGE" really a necessity in our lives???? and does this change take place naturally ????? or do we actually put in efforts with full strength to change it..................

well!! i am talking abt.......... "change" that keeps taking place constantly in our lives................... in terms of.......... the way we think, the way we talk, the way we dress, .......... the way we do all our other things in our daily lives consciously or sub-consciously......... the way we really are..................

as for me, change started happening at a very early age............. reason being....... my dad!!!!....... yup!! he was in the armed forces........... to be precise...... the Indian Navy.....
So being a daughter of a navy man was not at all easy ..........thou i must admit, .......... thank god!!!!!!!......... i had a defence upbringing.......

Naval life is all about transfers to the best places......... so that means......................... atleast for 2 years ur happily settled in one school.............. (or may be not)............... and then...........suddenly like a dream........... the next day u may find urself, sitting and studying, with a bunch of whole new faces, in a new school and a new place.................. by the way..... (i've changed about 10 schools..................)

so therefore......... i never actually knew that how many years or months was i gonna study in a school, when every time my dad got transferred to a new place and i got admitted to a new school .

But then i am not complaining......

Thou when i look back .... i kinda found it extremely irritating at that point of time.......... coz being a kid..... i did not understand ............... that.........all the sudden change in friends, in school, change in place and people around, change in neighbours........etc ............. was actually contributing to the personality i am today...............

Another major change happened when........ after completing my primary level in a Convent school i was packed and shifted to Kendriya Vidyalaya's............
(let me tell u........it was a complete shocking heart attack !!!!!!!!!!! .................and one more thing ........................ this generally happens with all defence kids!!!!!!!! )

Imagine after studying in a proper all girlzzz school.... where primary teachers wore only skirts or long frocks with tic-tac shoes and red lipstick.......where, english was the only language of conversation among friends and teachers.................., where, beautiful young nuns taught us about jesus christ and moral studies...... and also encouraged us to visit the church everyday and sprinkle the holy water over our little heads, where christmas was celebrated and cute kids like us were made to sing christmas carols,........ and most importantly...... where our skirts or frocks were alwayz above the knees (ha!!ha!!) .......... ...............

WAS SHIFTED TO A SCHOOL............

with broken chairs...... (which were later changed!!!! thank god!!)...., plumpy teachers who wore only and only saaris with a huge bindi , totally hindi speaking crowd except for a few and ofcourse our english teacher , hindi morning prayers , only patriotic songs sung with harmonium being played in the background and not piano...... which only happened in convent when we sung carols , .................from short skirts i was made to wear salwar kameez!!!! and
oh!! ya!! and how can i forget the biggest SHOCK..... i was now studying in a co- educational school...... ya!! i was studying with BOYZ!!!!!


used to hate those guyz so much, they eat our tiffins without even asking, drank all our water, and as if teasing was in their blood......... god!! can't even remember how many guyz i was paired with ..........,

but then i guess........... that change was fun ......... and was needed too.......
infact today some of my best friends r from the opposite sex!!!!!
Thanks for being there alwayz............. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and ya!!before i forget one imp thing.................... kendriya vidyalaya's arn't that bad..... spent quite a lot of time there................. no wonder most of the IIT's and REC's are from this school................. K.V's rock!!!!!

Another change happened when .......after completing school.......... i landed in Allahabad to study agriculture technology............. guess what............. Hostel life...... and then ofcourse Ragging................ aaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!! i ran out of that college, that place, that course within a month................ and joined law......... today i am a happy lawyer........

but then that one month showed me how tough things get when u have to live alone.......



u know what...... guess i shud end here...... coz this space may get too small if i start to blog down my amazing memories.............
i think change is an important part of our lives.......... and we just keep changing with times, trends and most importantly "situations"..................... and it takes place naturally!!!............
..................... just that sometimes adapting to the new sudden changes in our lives.............................. gets a little tough!!!!

what do u think guyz!!!???????/


take care!!

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GIVE THE WOMEN SOME AIR TO BREATHE???????????????????

hii there!!

Thou i am not much of a T.V person.........but then sometimes i do catch up on some movies and ofcourse the newz.
But then.................................................................................................

Yesterday during lunch time......while i was busy lunching.........( god!!our t.v is near the dining table......so irritating!!!!!!!!!)............... and my mom was busy with her daily soaps........ i noticed that the RECOVA , Ageing Cream ad, appeared in almost all the commercial breaks............... and then followed the FAIR and LOVELY ........... the Mens Fairness Cream ad..........................

and so a thot struck me...............guess!! thats why i am here writing this blog............

...................... do we find Ageing Cream ads for MEN on T.V?????????????????????????........................... i don't think so........... atlest i havent seen one......... so why, its alwayz, the eve, who has to look sexy , fair, beautiful and young even if she's in her 40's........????????????????????????????
i am not against looking good and feeling sexy............. but r looks the most important thing in a women............. hey!!u men out there......... give her some air to breathe....................
u want the women to be a super women or what??????????????? u want her to work(obviously she shud be professionally and financially independent)....., take care of u, ur home, ur kids, cook for u, ur friends, ur relatives, be absolutely rocking when it comes to ur personal life (u know what i mean)...............and at the same time, look gorgeous, sexy............................. which she tries to be to............ her level best

Why do these ads ,.......... picture....... that the husbands start looking elsewhere once their wives reach the age of 30............ and then assure that such miracle creams would revive back the romance in their relationship??????????

Do u really think romance revives back by just looking.... good, fair, beautiful, sexy?????????........ then what about the other qualities guyz????????????????

god!!! give me a break...................................

i guess............. we shud tell , those ad directors.......... that it can happen even in the case of women too.......... and its high time............. they find a remedy for the men too.............

Wonder why are the creams meant only for women................?????????? Where r the men in this segment?????????

Why do the women have to spend thousands and thousands to take those BOTOX Injections ( r they painful???????? got no idea on that.......... actually i havn't reached that age to get them......................and i won't too.........) just to look great............



Today women r at par with men in every field............... infact i think they r better than their counterparts........... i guess...................... thats why............
there r products like the Fairness Creams exclusively for MEN that have been launched in the market............... coz i guess men too have started feeling insecure..................... what do u think guyz........?????????

Infact i seriously appreciate................ an ad of some fairness cream where they show ........a typical indian before marriage background............where the girl (wishing to be a bride soon) visiting the boy's (preferred to be the apt groom) house and the boy entertains her with his music................ and only after listening to him,........... she agrees to be his wife..........

where normally in the indian culture its alwayz the other way round..................... but then i guess.............. that day is not far off...........
when the above ad will become a reality.................

but then this will only happen if only ladies like us............. STOP............. doing things according to the wishes of our husbands and boyfriends......... just to win them back........by looking good ha!! ha!! ha!!............... and more importantly by using those creams............ instead why not make them use it..................

what say ladies?????????